Blame

Blame

That would be something none is free from. Of which is also one of my two only principals I currently live by, but apparently not enough of. Blaming others is possibly the easiest way to escape the harsh reality of the situation one enters. Just throw the burden on someone else and let that person face the music. To take the blame for something you did is a very powerful decision that does change the fate most of the time for the people involved. To take the blame for something you didn't do, that could be the worst or best thing one can do. Blame is always there. When something happens, it happens and whether one tries to do something or not, it will always forever remain there no matter what. The point is, like a life who begins its existence on Earth, who will take it away? Who will end it? Not necessarily should the direct troublemaker be the one to take it. If I could answer that question, everyone should take the blame. Not because sharing it means people will be fairly judged, but because that way, they can realize that none is free from blame. It is not always who causes it, but who that did not manage to prevent it. Because of how the world works, with the amount of network and interaction, anyone can be the cause of a blame, if you are willing to take indirectness to the utmost extreme level. For me, I should always take the blame. It is hard to do so, but it helps to lessen a lot of stress and internal conflicts between me and the people that are in such a case. Take the blame, but let someone else off the hook. It is a chance for that person to repeat the mistake, but hopefully, on the first time you take a burden willingly from someone who has it, maybe that person might change. Who that takes the blame always go either up or down, there's no stay still and nothing happened. The chance to improves is more evident in taking the blame, but there is still a small chance making someone else the scapegoat to improve. But, when someone takes the blame, by how he/she does it, you can truly mark out one of the better characteristics of that person. It's always who want to do it, and thus who take a step forward.